I
think that as humans we have an instinct for conflict. I feel that conflict is
an inborn trait. Conflict makes us more of a human, because it allows us to
improve our relationships with people, by stopping, thinking and listening
before we communicate. The issue I had with the reading, is that conflict isn’t
always necessarily good, but the book makes you see conflict as being
productive and not negative. The book suggest that, we take a more positive
view on conflict, because “conflict is here to stay”(Pg. 15). As humans we are
entitled to our own opinions about things, so not everyone is going to agree on
certain topics which will lead to conflict.
I
think from a personal stand point, conflict in my personal relationships has
made my relationships with my friends stronger. With my significant others,
conflict has allowed us to open up to one another. So is conflict a valuable
asset, not always, but I do feel that each conflict in our lives can be taken
as a lesson to be learned from.